Saturday, May 26, 2012

A Medical Student in Penang - Steven & Casablanca



A medical student in Penang, Steven (24 years old ) from a rich family had been seeing a girl for a month, who also happend to be an ex-girlfriend of a friend, the friend had expressed his intention of resuming his relationship with the girl and STEVEN decided to give way.Steven had sent an sms to the girl saying that he did not want to give her any trouble or pressure her and advised her to watch the movie "Casablanca", then committed suicide.

Casablanca is a 1942 movie staring Humphrey Bogart, Paul Henreid and Ingrid Bergman set in world war II, it features a love triangle between two men and a woman with Borgart's charater giving up Bergman.
 
The True Story  above was a valuable lesson :-
Acording to Steven's father, when steven ask anything from his father will be given e.g. Steven was driving BMW car to school and etc....maybe because of Steven never know how to handle rejection and influenced by the Casablanca movie caused Steven commited suicide.
 
From the above lesson, parents should spend more time with Children and Children also should communicate more with parents/sibling orgood friends should we encounter challenges then will handle it properly. God alway helping those pleople helping themself.


在槟城,从一个富有的家庭 史蒂芬(24岁)是学医的学生和一个女孩在一起已一个月了,谁也恰巧是他朋友的前女友,他的朋友表示,他打算恢复他与女孩的关系,并史蒂芬决定让路。史蒂芬发送短信的女孩说,他不想给她任何麻烦或施加压力,她,并劝她看电影“卡萨布兰卡” 然后跳楼自杀.

卡萨布兰卡是1942年的影片,盯着亨弗莱·鲍嘉,保罗亨里德和英格丽·褒曼在二战中集,它的特点是与Borgart的沙拉泰放弃伯格曼两个男人和一个女人之间的三角恋爱。

上面的真实故事是一个宝贵的教训: 
史蒂芬的父亲,当史蒂芬要求任何东西,他的父亲将会例如史蒂芬要求, 例如驾驶宝马车到学校等...也许是因为史蒂芬不知道如何处理拒绝和卡萨布兰卡电影的影响引起史蒂芬自杀。

从上面的教训,家长应该花更多的时间与孩子,孩子们也应该多沟通,多与父母/兄弟姐妹或好朋友,我们遇到的挑战,然后会妥善处理。上帝总是帮助会自助的人。
 





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