有一位牧师的女儿,她天生就是一位脑性痲痺患者,且无法言语。
但,她却靠着无比的毅力与信仰的扶持,在美国拿到了艺术博士,并到处现身说法帮助他人。
有一次,她应...邀到一个场合演「写」(不能讲话的她必需以笔代口),会后发问时,一个学生当众小声的问:「妳从小就长成这个样子,请问你怎麽看你自己?妳都没有怨恨吗?」
这个无心但尖锐的问题让在场人士无不捏一把冷汗,深怕会深深刺伤了她的心。
只见她回过头,用粉笔在黑板上吃力地写下了「我怎麽看自己?」这几个大字。
她笑着再回头看了看大家后,又转过身去继续写着:
一、我好可爱!
二、我的腿很长很美!
三、爸爸妈妈这麽爱我!
四、上帝这麽爱我!
五、我会画画!我会写稿!
六、我有隻可爱的猫!
七、还有……
八、……
忽然,教室内一片鸦雀无声,没有人敢讲话。
她又回过头来静静地看着大家,再回过头去,在黑板上写下了她结论:「我只看我所有的,不看我所没有的。」
众人安静了几秒后,一下子,全场响起了如雷的掌声与无数感动的泪水。
那天,许多人因着她的乐观与见证而得到激励。
这个乐观的脑性痲痺患者是谁?
她,就是美国南加州大学艺术博士,在台湾开过多次画展的黄美廉女士。
「我只看我所有的,不看我所没有的。」
幸福,不在于您拥有多少事物,乃在于您用怎样的态度去看待、享受自己现下所拥有的一切。
若是能这样,即便您看似一无所有,也能比那些大富豪或身体健壮但成天愁眉苦脸的人们更快乐、更富有。
注:黄美廉出生于台南,父亲是位牧师。出生时由于医生的疏失,造成她脑部神经受到严重的伤害,以致颜面四肢肌肉都失去正常作用。当时她的爸爸,妈妈抱着身体软软的她,四处寻访名医,结果得到的都是无情的答案。她不能说话,嘴还向一边扭曲,口水也不能止住的流下。十四岁时,她全家移民到美国,进入洛杉矶市立大学就读,之后转至洛杉矶加州州立大学艺术学院,如今已取得博士学位,成为画家。
Cerebral palsy Dr. Huang Meilian Awarded Love of Life Award
A pastor's daughter, she was born is a cerebral palsy patient, and unable to speak.
But, she was relying on the support of unparalleled perseverance and faith in the United States got the Arts Dr., and full of their own experiences to help others.
On one occasion, she should ... invited to an occasion speech "write" (can not speak, she must pen on behalf of the mouth), ask question after a student in public whisper: "You grew up long in this way, what how do you see yourself? you did not hate it? "
This unintentional but sharp questions to the audience invariably gotten me very nervous, fearing deeply stabbed her heart.
I saw her come back, struggling to write in large letters, "how do I look?" With chalk on the blackboard.
She smiled and then looked back at all, he turned away to continue that read:
One, I'm so cute!
Second, my long legs beautiful!
Third, Mom and Dad love me so much!
Forth, God loves me so much!
Fifth, I will paint! I will be writing!
Sixth, I have a cute cat!
Seven, there ...
Eight ......
Suddenly, a silent classroom, no one dared to speak.
She looked back to quietly watching them, and then go back and wrote on the blackboard, she concluded: "I look at all I do not look at me not."
Everyone quiet for a few seconds, all of a sudden, the audience burst into thunderous applause and many moved to tears.
That day, many people motivate her optimism and witness.
Who is this optimism cerebral palsy?
She is the University of Southern California art Dr. in Taiwan the Miss Huang Meilian several exhibitions.
"I just look at me, do not see that I do not have."
Happiness is that you have a number of things is to look at you with the kind of attitude, to enjoy their own is now owned by all.
If they could, even if you seemingly have nothing, than those rich and powerful or able bodied people but all day frown happier and richer.
Note: Huangmei Lian was born in Tainan, his father was a pastor. Birth due to doctor's negligence caused her brain serious nerve damage, resulting in loss of normal facial muscles of the extremities. When her father, her mother holding her body feels, around them and the doctors, the results are ruthless answer. She can not speak, mouth twisted to one side, saliva also can not be stopped from his shed. 14 years old, her family immigrated to the United States, the Los Angeles City university, after go to Los Angeles, California State University, College of Art, has obtained a doctorate and become a painter.
黃美廉
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